Mark what a brilliant and gripping story you have. You might appreciate the work of death doula Alua Arthur who appeared as a guest on my podcast, Coming Back. She not only helps those who are “actively” dying, but also helps those of us who “live on” to come to terms with our inevitable demise. You can find our episode and more about her work here: http://www.shelbyforsythia.com/podcast/alua-arthur